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Star\u0161i pred svojimi otroki: Kako?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bbVstani, vzemi dete in njegovo mater in zbe\u017ei v Egipt! Ostani tam, dokler ti ne povem; Herod bo namre\u010d iskal dete, da bi ga umoril!\u00ab Ne vem, kako se je po\u010dutil Jo\u017eef, ko se je prebudil in ni vedel, ali so bile sanje neka blodnja ali jasno sporo\u010dilo, kaj naj naredi. Marsikateri o\u010de bi se po\u010dutil kot izgubljen, ko bi imel neko slutnjo ali vizijo, kaj se lahko zgodi z njegovim otrokom, \u010de ne bo takoj ukrepal. \u010ce delamo bolj natan\u010dno analizo, kak\u0161ni so sodobni star\u0161i, predvsem o\u010detje, smo lahko zelo zbegani. Eni bi radi svoje otroke imeli na kratko, drugi pustijo, da si otrok privo\u0161\u010di vse, \u010de\u0161, saj bo pri\u0161el \u010das, ko se bo zresnil. Obstajajo pa tudi taki, ki si vzamejo \u010das, otroka opazujejo, ga poslu\u0161ajo in sku\u0161ajo odkriti, kje so njegove prednosti, kako bo lahko v \u017eivljenju najbolj zadovoljen. Skratka, lahko re\u010demo, da danes biti star\u0161 ni lahko.<\/p>\n

Kdo lahko re\u010de, da je zares sposoben zapusti samega sebe in se skoncentrirati na osebo, o kateri ne ve, kak\u0161no prihodnost ima sin ali h\u010di! Star\u0161 postane\u0161, ko si sposoben svoje \u017eivljenje darovati za nekoga, ne da bi ga podredil svojim na\u010drtom. Tak\u0161na je prava zastonjska ljubezen. Star\u0161 ne postane\u0161, ko je otrok spo\u010det, ampak ko si sposoben zanj dati \u017eivljenje, ko otroku dovoli\u0161, da lahko gre po svoji poti, ki najve\u010dkrat ni tak\u0161na, kot si si jo ti predstavljal. Star\u0161 nisi, ko se trudi\u0161, da bi otroci bili fotokopija tebe in ne odneha\u0161 s svojim \u00bbTako bo in ni\u010d druga\u010de!\u00ab, dokler ne dose\u017ee\u0161 svojega cilja. Tako kot Marija, mora biti vsak star\u0161 pripravljen sprejeti me\u010d, tisti me\u010d, ki preseka vrv, s katero je otrok povezan s star\u0161i. Dokler star\u0161 otroku ne dovoli, da se oddalji in za\u010dne \u017eiveti po svoje, otrok ne bo sposoben uresni\u010diti svoje \u017eivljenje in \u017eiveti v skladu s poslanstvom, ki mu ga je Bog zaupal.<\/p>\n

Sodobno kulturo lahko ozna\u010dimo s krizo o\u010detovstva. Ni ve\u010d pravih o\u010detov, ki bi bili sposobni umreti za svojega otroka. \u010ce se o\u010de oklepa svoje mladostni\u0161ke vizije, je podoben kralju Laju, ki Ojdipa ni sprejel za svojega sina in je otrok bil prepu\u0161\u010den cesti. Danes je vedno ve\u010d o\u010detov, ki so celo svoje \u017eivljenje najstniki: niso sposobni darovati svoje \u017eivljenje za nekoga, ker se bojijo za svoje \u017eivljenje. Otrok je njihova trofeja in ni\u010d drugega.<\/p>\n

Evangeliji nam dajejo za zgled Jo\u017eefa, ki ima edino \u017eeljo, da otroka obvaruje pred razli\u010dnimi vsiljivci, ki ho\u010dejo otroka uni\u010diti. Matej nam je v nekaj kratkih stavkih predstavil Jo\u017eefa s tremi Bo\u017ejimi klici v sanjah. Jo\u017eef vedno poslu\u0161a Boga in otroka ne jemlje kot nekaj, kar mu pripada, ampak kot Bo\u017eji dar, ki ga je prejel v oskrbo. Jo\u017eef je tako osredoto\u010den na Bo\u017eji glas, da ne spregovori nobene besede, on samo poslu\u0161a in naredi, kar mu je zapovedano. Vstane sredi no\u010de, se soo\u010di z otrokovo prihodnostjo, in naredi vse, da bi otroka zavaroval.<\/p>\n

Vsaka prihodnost je podobna veliki skrivnosti, ker nikoli ne ve\u0161, kako bo potekalo tvoje \u017eivljenje in \u017eivljenje tvojih bli\u017enjih. Zato si v pravem pomenu besede star\u0161, ko ni\u010d ve\u010d ne ra\u010duna\u0161, ampak naredi\u0161 to, kar si v danih okoli\u0161\u010dinah sposoben narediti. \u0160ele, ko si to sposoben, tvoje \u017eivljenje dobi pravo polnost in si zadovoljen. Jo\u017eef ni niti slutil, kako se bo zaklju\u010dilo Jezusovo otro\u0161tvo in ni imel prave ideje, kaj dru\u017eino \u010daka na begu v Egipt. Odre\u0161enik, ki se je rodil, je bil popolnoma prepu\u0161\u010den v njegove roke in ta otrok bo v vsej svoji poni\u017enosti in ljubezni, tudi z Jo\u017eefovo ljubeznijo, sposoben umreti za vse \u010dlove\u0161tvo in ga odre\u0161iti.<\/p>\n

Evangelist Matej nam predstavi Jo\u017eefa kot \u010dloveka, ki se boji: ko se sveta dru\u017eina vra\u010da iz Egipta v doma\u010di Nazaret, je Jo\u017eef zelo zaskrbljen, kajti Heroda je nasledil njegov sin, ki v Jezusu ravno tako vidi svojega tekmeca. Tudi v tem primeru velja pregovor, da jabolko ne pade dale\u010d od drevesa. Mo\u010d, tekmovalnost in tiranija se po navadi \u0161irita iz roda v rod. Jo\u017eef ni bil kak nevedne\u017e in tudi ne idealist, zato se je resno vpra\u0161al, kaj naj naredi za varnost otroka in dru\u017eine. Samo dialog in zaupanje v Boga mu pomagata najti pravi odgovor in sprejeti dobro odlo\u010ditev.<\/p>\n

Jo\u017eef nam je zgled pravega, odgovornega o\u010deta, kralj Herod pa predstavlja \u010dloveka, ki kljub svoji starosti \u0161e ni odrasel. Herod i\u0161\u010de na\u010din, kako bo otroka uni\u010dil, ker v otroku vidi svojega tekmeca, osebo, ki mu bo odvzela mo\u010d in polo\u017eaj, ki si ga je z me\u010dem in nasiljem zagotovil. Herod vidi samo sebe in svojo mo\u010d.<\/p>\n

V sodobni dru\u017ebi si ravno tako stojita nasproti lik Jo\u017eefa in lik Heroda: vsi smo namre\u010d pri\u010de razli\u010dnih oblik o\u010detovstva. Veliko vpra\u0161anje je, katera od teh dveh oblik bo zmagala. Zato je zelo pomembno za kak\u0161no obliko politi\u010dnega, kulturnega in kr\u0161\u010danskega \u017eivljenja se bomo odlo\u010dili: za odraslo, odgovorno o\u010detovstvo, ki ga predstavlja sveti Jo\u017eef, ali za mo\u010d in izsiljevanje, ki ga predstavlja Herod. Vsaka dru\u017eina mora najti svoj odgovor.<\/p>\n

\u017dupnik Branko Bala\u017eic SDB<\/strong><\/p>

<\/p> Bo\u017ei\u010dni \u010das Leto A <\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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