{"id":16493,"date":"2022-12-28T14:36:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-28T13:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.salve.si\/?p=16493"},"modified":"2022-11-23T15:05:58","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T14:05:58","slug":"sveta-druzina-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.salve.si\/en\/bozicni-cas\/sveta-druzina-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Sveta dru\u017eina"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Vstani, vzemi dete in njegovo mater in zbe\u017ei v Egipt<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Postati star\u0161, ustvariti si dru\u017eino in skrbeti zanjo, ni bila nikoli lahka naloga. Ko postane\u0161 star\u0161, za\u010dne\u0161 pozabljati nase in se osredoto\u010di\u0161 na otroka, na bitje, ki potrebuje nego in je od tebe odvisno. Star\u0161 postane\u0161, ko si sposoben dati \u017eivljenje novemu bitju, a hkrati si ne domi\u0161lja\u0161, da si postal lastnik novega dru\u017einskega \u010dlana. To pomeni, da si pravi star\u0161 \u0161ele takrat, ko dovoli\u0161, da si otrok sam izbere pot, po kateri ho\u010de hoditi. Vsi, ki imate otroke, se dobro zavedate, da je najte\u017eja naloga pustiti otroka, da gre po poti, ki je niste predvidevali, ali je celo nasprotna va\u0161emu verskemu, politi\u010dnemu ali kak\u0161nemu drugemu prepri\u010danju.<\/p>\n<p>Marsikateri od star\u0161ev vidi v svojem otroku fotokopijo samega sebe. Zadovoljen je, \u010de v otroku opa\u017ea uresni\u010ditev samega sebe. Kak\u0161en od vas je morda videl v kak\u0161ni cerkvi podobo Marije, katere srce je prebodeno s sedmimi me\u010di. Simboli\u010dno vzeto je srce marsikatere matere prebodeno s tak\u0161nimi me\u010di. Mati se zaveda, da je otrok del nje, zato je tako te\u017eko sprejeti, da se otrok oddalji, da jo zapusti in gre po svoji poti. Toda \u0161ele, ko mati dovoli, da se otrok sme oddaljiti in jo zapustiti, ostanejo odnosi med star\u0161i in otroki zdravi in se bo otrok z veseljem vra\u010dal domov.<\/p>\n<p>Danes pa opa\u017eamo \u0161e drugo stvar, s katero se je treba neizogibno soo\u010diti. Gre za krizo, ki je povezana z o\u010detom. Malo je o\u010detov, ki bi bili pripravljeni za svojega otroka dati \u017eivljenje. Danes je veliko o\u010detov, ki so vse svoje \u017eivljenje na ravni pubertetnikov, ki se stalno prito\u017eujejo, da niso ljubljeni in se po\u010dutijo zavr\u017eene. Svoje otroke imajo kot neko trofejo, a jih niso sposobni ljubiti.<\/p>\n<p>Jezusov kru\u0161ni o\u010de sveti Jo\u017eef je bil druga\u010den. Matej nam je govoril o Jo\u017eefu, ki je bil zaradi Jezusa zelo zaskrbljen in je storil vse, da bi otroka zavaroval. Jo\u017eef je bil kot \u010dlovek zelo odprt ne le za ljudi, s katerimi je \u017eivel v Nazaretu, ampak je bil odprt tudi za Bo\u017eje posege. Poslu\u0161al je Boga, pozoren je bil na razli\u010dne Bo\u017eje posege in si Jezusa ni prisvajal kot neko lastnino, ampak kot Bo\u017eji dar, ki ga je prejel za nekaj \u010dasa v oskrbo. Tako je poslu\u0161al Boga, da ni upal ugovarjati in zato v evangelijih ne najdemo niti enega stavka, ki bi ga Jo\u017eef izrekel. Poslu\u0161al je Bo\u017eji glas in naredil v skladu z naro\u010dilom. Sredi no\u010di se je dvignil, vzel otroka in njegovo mater in od\u0161el v neznano, v Egipt, kjer si bo moral za svojo dru\u017eino umisliti neko novo \u017eivljenje, za katero ni imel nobene prave garancije, kak\u0161no bo to \u017eivljenje po \u010dlove\u0161ki in duhovni plati. Res je, da pravi star\u0161 postane\u0161 \u0161ele takrat, ko neha\u0161 ra\u010dunati, kjer se preprosto prepusti\u0161 \u017eivljenju, ki je pred teboj in sku\u0161a\u0161 narediti najbolj\u0161e, kar si tisti trenutek sposoben narediti. Po svetem Jo\u017eefu nam Bog sporo\u010da zadeve, ki niso logi\u010dne: re\u0161evati je treba pravega Odre\u0161enika sveta. Bog se je v otroku Jezusu tako poni\u017eal, da je sposoben v vsej poni\u017enosti sprejeti \u010dlove\u0161ko skrb in ljubezen. Bog dopusti, da mu Jo\u017eef in Marija pomagata, da bo Jezus tako postal v praven pomenu odre\u0161enik, ki mu nobena \u010dlove\u0161ka stiska ni tuja.<\/p>\n<p>Jo\u017eef se poka\u017ee kot pravi zgled za posnemanje tudi v vsej svoji \u010dlove\u0161ki nebogljenosti in strahovih: vrne se nazaj v Judejo, tako kot mu je Bog naro\u010dil, a hkrati zve, da je na prestolu Herodov sin. Na oblasti se ni kaj bistvenega spremenilo. Ker Jo\u017eef ni nek idealist, ampak realist, zato se spra\u0161uje, kaj naj naredi, da otrok ne bi bil ogro\u017een. Samo pravi dialog in zaupanje v Boga mu pomagata sprejeti novo realnost, ki ne obeta kaj dobrega.<\/p>\n<p>Jo\u017eef nam je tako lep zgled odgovornega o\u010deta, a hkrati nam evangelist Matej v Herodu predstavi model o\u010deta, ki mu ne uspe postati odgovoren o\u010de. Herod i\u0161\u010de otroka, da bi ga ubil. V otroku prepozna konkurenta, ki ogro\u017ea njegovo oblast. Herod je ljubezniv le na zunaj, ni odrasel \u010dlovek, ampak vase zaverovani najstnik, ki vidi le svoje interese. Zato se ne smemo \u010duditi, da je v svojem sinu Antipatru videl konkurenta za oblast in ga je dal ubiti.<\/p>\n<p>Tudi v sodobni dru\u017ebi imamo o\u010dete, ki so podobni Jo\u017eefu in druge, ki poosebljajo Heroda. Vsak mo\u0161ki se mora odlo\u010diti, kak\u0161nega odraslega bo predstavljal in kak\u0161en bo njegov vzgojni model, tako na verskem kot na politi\u010dnem in socialnem podro\u010dju. Izbiri sta samo dve: Jo\u017eefova ali Herodova, odgovorno o\u010detovstvo v prid otroka ali manipulativno o\u010detovstvo, ko vidi\u0161 le sebe in so otroci zgolj trofeja, s katero se lahko pohvali\u0161 pred drugimi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u017dupnik Branko Bala\u017eic SDB<\/strong><span class=\"slv-content-keywords\"> Bo\u017ei\u010dni \u010das Bo\u017ei\u010dni \u010das Leto A <\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vstani, vzemi dete in njegovo mater in zbe\u017ei v Egipt Postati star\u0161, ustvariti si dru\u017eino in skrbeti zanjo, ni bila nikoli lahka naloga. Ko postane\u0161 star\u0161, za\u010dne\u0161 pozabljati nase in se osredoto\u010di\u0161 na otroka, na bitje, ki potrebuje nego in je od tebe odvisno. Star\u0161 postane\u0161, ko si sposoben dati \u017eivljenje novemu bitju, a hkrati<a href=\"https:\/\/www.salve.si\/en\/bozicni-cas\/sveta-druzina-2\/\">&#8230;<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1561,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[655,1177],"tags":[1096],"class_list":["post-16493","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bozicni-cas","category-leto-a","tag-bozicni-cas"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Sveta dru\u017eina - Salve<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"noindex, follow\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Sveta dru\u017eina - Salve\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Vstani, vzemi dete in njegovo mater in zbe\u017ei v Egipt Postati star\u0161, ustvariti si dru\u017eino in skrbeti zanjo, ni bila nikoli lahka naloga. 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